Trip Notes: One of the last
conversations I had with Aunt Peg, when she was in good health, was to
plan a trip to Sayner. She really wanted to go even though her health
wasn't too hot. Her sudden death in the beginning of the summer left us
thinking about her and this place. She told us her happiest moments were
sitting on the pier at the Razorback boat launch waiting for Uncle
Charlie to get the boat in as the kids played on the beach. She would
dip her feet in the water and remember being a free kid herself in the
same waters and trees. In her last few years she was anything but free,
tethered to an oxygen tank and weighed down by difficult breathing.
My
happiest moments and earliest memories of Aunt Peg are on Razorback
Lake too. I remember driving all night on lonely, mysterious, and
enchanting roads and arriving at Moss's in the middle of the night.
Everyone was alseep but Aunt Peg. She stayed up, it seemed, just to
give me a hug when I arrived. She was probably up worrying about our
travel since she was the leader of our extended family. I remember
her down by the pier with a coffee cup and her feet in the water.
Here we were a big family, tight, and Aunt Peg organized us and
bound us cousins up the same woods where she was bound to her
cousins.
So anyone
who could was invited to come to Sayner this year and some did
manage to make it. Nicki and kids camped in the woods around Big
Musky Lake. Mom and Dad stayed in Eagle River. We gathered like the
old days and talked about many things, including Aunt Peg. It
drizzled a lot this week, forcing us to stay inside from time to
time and just be together and be a tight family. Other times we went
outside and caught fish and built fires and sometimes drank too much
(at least in my opinion.)
We waited
until the last day because I think we wanted to avoid it. But then
we were out of time and forced to say goodbye and put a third of
Aunt Peg's remains under the pier by the boat launch where she
watched us play when we were kids, where she saw our freedom and
remembered hers, and where her remains and memory most lives on for
me unbounded by her broken body.
Big
tadpoles swim around that very spot every summer. I watch them when
I go there every year and remember Aunt Peg staying awake and
waiting for me to come to the woods... and I watch my kids play at
the beach.
(recollections by Scott, jotted down two years
after the fact, so that is why there are no details.)
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